He was one of the first men to message me on the site. How any of them ever managed to land themselves wives is beyond me. None of them are all that charming, and they don't know how to talk to women (saying "LOL" out loud does not count as youthful wit). To them, if they order the right drink (an old fashioned) and say the right things ("I work in advertising/tech/fashion/finance"), women will give 'em their panties and bend over. Most of the men I've met on Ashley Madison seem to think they're Don Draper.
The Men Think They're More Charming Than They Are